Men!
Last year, DF and I decided we were only doing stockings... he put a freaking ipod touch in my stocking bc he said it fit. Seriously?? This year I made him pinky swear no presents, not even stockings. I love gifting and surprising people, but I know we are both tight with the wedding and didn't want him to get me something, I'll roll my eyes if he tries... soo I feel your pain, what a (sweet) stinker! BUT, he does have good taste and it will match perfectly!
At this point I'd take it as him being sweet and not try to rush and get something to give him now, he was the one who broke the rules. I'd slip in a surprise for something else later.. maybe tell him no Valentines gifts and give him something then, etc? GL!
The rules for the harpist are ridiculous.. grrr
yay for 4 months and your invites!! I am trying to send ours early too so we have an exact count more than a few weeks or a month before the wedding. Figuring they'll know whether or not theyre coming since youre right, it's a destination wedding!
Hope you have a very merry Christmas!